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Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Women's Day - My Mother and Sister !!!

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        Everyone was quiet..Everyone was waiting for the news to come..Everyone was watching different patients lying on the stretchers and moving here and there on the corridor of the hospital..Suddenly they saw that the Red light disappeared which was waving its dangerous hand from a long period..Everyone stood up to listen to the news Doctor would give after coming out.After 5 minutes doctor came and said , "ITS A GIRL." The husband of the pregnant women was standing in pride till then but as soon as he heard about the girl child, his face dropped and he sat in anxiousness on the floor of the hospital.The mother-in-law of the pregnant women started cursing the innocent..and other family members made their dirty face..I just wondered what it was..Whats so dissentiening in the words ITS A GIRL !!!

            It was INTERNATIONAL WOMEN's DAY today and I really want to salute all the girls, women and the female population of this world. You all have really augmented the beauty of the earth with your presence. If you all would not have been on this earth, I think that no boy would have smiled ever..No boy would have passed his secret to anyone..No boy would have demanded anything in life..The females contributes a lot..I'm just proud of being a child of a women..Im just proud to have my Nani and Dadi alive and with me..The girls really adds many elements on the earth to make it a wonderful planet and also adds an enthusiasm in every human being living on the earth..

             It is said that Man can be smart and tough according to his physical prospects but when It comes to emotions and heart, The girls are lot more stronger then us..There are many examples where after the death of the wife, man can't handle his kids even for a month and weds for the 2nd time..But when a husband dies, rarely it happens that a women marry for the 2nd time..They have that courage to nourish their kids as a single parent and make them a successful personality..We should really salute these womans..It is said that a man never commands himself in his life..I have observed that till the 15 years of the life, Boys run on the commands given by his mother..Then for the next 5 years on the command of the sister , then from 20 to 25 years on the command of the girlfriend, then from 25 to 35 on commands of the wife, then from 35 to 55 on the command of the daughter, then from 55 till death on the command of the daughter-in-law..So you can yourself see the different roles of women which guides a single man so much.....

               On this women day, I would really like to take the name of two most important womans of my life - My Mother- Shrimati Sunita Ruhela and My Sister- Miss Nidhi Tiwari(Don't be confused.She is my Rakhi sister but a very close one).My mother have always motivated and supported me..I'll not talk much about her right now as I'm going to talk about her on the blog I'll write on 10th April as its her birthday then..But I will really say that If she would not have supported me I would have died till now..Because there was a phase in my life when I had no reason to live, At that time in my life, She showed her role as a women and a mother and made me whatever I am today..And then talking about my sister - Nidhi Tiwari..A girl who is an example of hard-work, soft-spoken, friend, dedication, sweetness and Parent to own-self..She has seen a very bad life in her past..The worst one can see..Dont want to divulge her story here without her permission but I will really say, whenever I felt broken with a problem standing ahead of me, I only remembered her and stood up again and started with the process of marching towards the goal..The girl had no support from her family of any kind but today she is living in a city like Pune..on a rent which she pays herself with the money she earns..She is studying with the fees paid by herself...She owns a laptop and an internet connection which is purchased with the money she has earned..She would have done cheapness like some girls- manipulating a boy and then making him pay all the money needed for her requirements but rather than doing this she managed to struggle and slog down...And today she is standing in her life on her own basis..without anyone's support..I'm proud to have her as my sister..


               So , Happy Women's Day to all the Mothers, sisters, granny, chachis, mamis, taijis, betis , buaas and bahus of this world...Ohh..Sorry even Kaamwaali baais...Just rock as you all do...We boys bow to you...We are your slaves... :-)

THANKS

ABHILASH RUHELA - VEERU 

2 comments- You Can Also Write It Here:

angie

hey....thanks for all the gd thoughts abt us women...its really impressive to see such great thoughts at this young age....not many new generation boys have this much respect for their mothers and sister...

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa

Wilshire, Its ok when u have said all this about women..kyuki agar maine kahaa hota to criticism baras baras kar aata mere uparr..par ab jab tumne kahaa hai to koi kuch nahi kehne waala..tumhara ye comment main apne agle blog me daalne waala hu for others also to read..bcoz main nahi chahta hu ki koi bhi ye comment miss kare....u have written what is right....but thodi toh ijjat de deta yaar...but chal theek hai...sub apna apna soch rakhtey hain..wohi hona chahiye..kisi aur ke liye fake nahi likhna chahiye.. u r absolutely right....

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